Ask Kat February
Q: I’m trying to figure out if this guy I’ve been dating is really into me. My mom always says it’s in the kiss…think that’s true?A: To an extent. If you think the guy is a good kisser then that’s always a plus. Is it something that you can base how you think he feels about you on? Not necessarily. He may be a good match for your kissing style, but you also have to take into consideration how he makes you feel inside. A guy can be into you, a good kisser and still not be able to turn you physically, mentally and emotionally. If you’re really into this guy, take the time to figure out how he makes you feel. Do you feel like he respects you? Does he hurt you in any way? Is he playing mind games with you? Any guy that really likes you will respect you enough not to keep you in the dark about the way he truly feels about you. Also keep in mind that just because he’s into you today does not guarantee that he’ll be that into you tomorrow.
Q: No matter how hard I try I cannot get my girlfriend climax. We’ve been together for a while, get along great, I don’t get it. Any advice?
A: Sorry to hear about the predicament. A few questions to ask yourself:
1) Is she able to climax via masturbation?
2) Does she know where her clitoris is?
3) Do YOU know where her clitoris is?
The clitoris is the female counterpart of the male penis head. It is an extremely sensitive and relatively small bundle of nerves located towards the top of her pubic mound. It is covered with a thin membrane of skin tissue called the clitoral hood. Stimulation to this area can produce intense orgasms. For some, stimulation to this area is necessary for orgasm to occur in any sexual situation. Ask her is she’s been able to bring herself to climax. If no, refer her to the previously stated information. If yes, ask her if she would show or tell you how she gets there…and take notes. If you’ve been there and done that my friend, try a different technique. There are female orgasm enhancing topicals, Viva Cream and Orgasmix, to name two. Gently rub a very small amount (no larger than the size of a small pearl) onto the clitoris/clitoral hood. In about fifteen minutes time she should be well-lubricated and about ready to climax. Good luck and have fun!
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